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What to expect from Quaker worship

In the Religious Society of Friends we worship together in expectant silence and through spoken words. There is no human leader and no prearranged program. Each person who enters the Meeting helps to determine the depth of our worship as a group.

The silent hour is a time of seeking awareness of the Divine — dropping our usual patterns of thought, analysis and worry. We wait patiently for a kind of consciousness which Quakers have traditionally called the Light.

The Light may come as a new insight with regard to oneself, a deep sorrow for mistakes and wrong attitudes, an embrace of life and its joys, a new courage to face life, or power to obey the Light. This is the ministry of silence, of opening ourselves to feel the presence of the Divine Spirit with us and within all of us.

The Light may also lead one to feel he or she has an insight to share with the Meeting. This is vocal ministry, and is offered in the sense and hope that the worship of others may be deepened by this ministry. After such a message, the group should have ample time to truly listen and sink back into silent waiting before the silence is broken again, if at all, during the rest of the Meeting.

There is the ministry of listening, of listening behind the words that are spoken, of holding up those words to the Light, to hear that of God in the speaker.

Because we value the experience of worship so greatly, we want to share it with the children of the Meeting, who join us in the first ten minutes of worship.

At the end of the worship hour, someone will close Meeting with a handshake followed by introductions of newcomers

Programs for children and youth

Childcare for infants, toddlers and preschool children is available during Meeting for Worship at 11:00. It is located downstairs in a spacious, well-equipped nursery school room. Older children are also welcome if they prefer to join us downstairs rather than sit with their parents in worship. There is a regular childcare provider as well as a second adult from the Meeting community to provide safety support.

Accessibility

Our main floor is wheel chair accessible, we have a hearing loop in the worship room for the hearing impaired, and we also provide electronic versions of our publications in email for the visually impaired. The main floor has two gender-neutral single stall bathrooms, one of which is wheel-chair accessible.

Quaker testimonies

A Cabinet of SPICES

Our testimonies are the way we live what we believe. Quakers believe that God wants us to live as good people. Quakers try to do this in many ways, but the six most important ones are described by some people as the SPICES. After each testimony are queries which are questions that we use to help us think about how we can improve.

SIMPLICITY

Quakers believe that if we are always trying to get better things, we can forget to be good people. Sometimes keeping a lot of fancy things, clothes, and toys can get in the way of doing our work. Sometimes we can begin to think our things are more important than people.

PEACE

Quakers believe that war and violence do not solve disagreements between anybody. These things only make people suffer. Quakers try to settle all their arguments with out using weapons or words to hurt others. Quakers believe that world peace begins with each of us.

INTEGRITY

Integrity means being truthful and trying always to do a good job. It means saying what we mean and meaning what we say.  Quakers believe that God wants us to be honorable in all that we do and say.

COMMUNITY

Quakers believe that it is very important to be a good neighbor. This means being helpful to people around us. This could be the people we live with or near, our schoolmates and teachers, and people at our Meetings or churches. It could be doing chores or it could just mean visiting someone who is lonely. Having fun together is a great way to build community too!

EQUALITY

Quakers believe there is that of God in everyone. Everyone is created equal. This means everyone has the same human rights and should be treated fairly. It also means we should treat people the way we want to be treated.

STEWARDSHIP

To live with simplicity and integrity, we need to do a good job taking care of the things we own and use. This means taking good care of the earth. Quakers believe in trying to leave the world a better place after we have been here.

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Other local Quaker meetings

Using Quaker Finder

Friends General Conference Quaker Finder has an easy to use map and list of local Quaker meetings and worship groups.

Worship Groups under the care of University Meeting

Other Worship Groups in the Seattle area

Nearby Monthly Meetings